Relationship Triage Tool Step 1 of 3 33% The shape of your relationshipA brief way to understand what’s happening—and where to begin. We are here to help you think clearly about what’s happening in your relationship and what kind of support may be most useful. This short process will walk you through a few questions and offer a thoughtful starting point based on your responses.Click "Next" to start the quiz. What’s been most present in your relationship lately?(Required) We feel distant or disconnected We keep having the same arguments Something happened that changed things Things feel intense or unstable We’re not sure if we want to stay together It’s hard to describe How would you describe things right now?(Required) Mostly steady, but not very connected Tense or strained Overwhelming at times Hard to manage or escalating Are you both open to working on the relationship right now?(Required) Yes One of us is unsure We’re both unsure When something goes wrong between you, what usually happens?(Required) We tend to avoid it or move past it We get stuck having the same conversations It escalates quickly We talk about it, but nothing really changes Name(Required) First Last Email(Required)