Loving Well

Loving Well

The Divorce Club

The Divorce Club

It was the type of abandon unique to crisis and duress — when going kamikaze seems like a sound and wise decision.When I reentered the dating scene at 42, I felt like Rip Van Winkle. Like I had been sleeping for the entirety of my marriage and that, upon my waking,...

Letter(s) to a Couple in Crisis

Letter(s) to a Couple in Crisis

January 29th 2024 It has been a while since I have written. In the past, I have stayed in touch with updates, letting you know about essays I have published with The Gottman Institute or announcements concerning happenings at my center, The Northampton Center for...

Laying Down Our Weapons

Laying Down Our Weapons

What is relational intelligence? I define relational intelligence (RQ) as being both intra- and inter-personally skillful. Intrapersonal intelligence is of primary importance because healthy relating starts with knowing oneself. One can undoubtedly obtain behavioral...

A Better Marriage Means Better Health

A Better Marriage Means Better Health

Reap rewards from a stronger relationship using these three strategies. A happy marriage is like a tonic for your health. People who feel loved, respected, supported, and connected to their spouse enjoy everything from enhanced heart health and a stronger immune...

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