by Kerry Lusignan | Oct 14, 2020 | Trauma
We give up whole parts of ourselves to belong in our families. In turn, for those of us who dare to come home to ourselves, we risk losing our family and severing the ties that bind us. When I was twenty-one, I became the first member of my family to earn a...
by Kerry Lusignan | Sep 30, 2020 | Couples Therapy
We can discuss the presidential debate between Biden and Trump from a multitude of angles. We can analyze it from the vantage point of history, political science, or social justice. We can fact check it or hone in on themes. We can comment based on our limited...
by Kerry Lusignan | Sep 21, 2020 | Couples Therapy
Sometimes in life, we must choose between two torments. “I’m asking you to leave.” I can barely move my lips — they’re all tremble; this is what happens when you live in a cage — everything atrophies, even the delicate flesh of your mouth. The rusty cell door stands...
by Kerry Lusignan | Aug 24, 2020 | Anger, Marriage
I’ve been a promise keeper for most of my life, only breaking promises when left with no other choice – when a murmur in my heart began pounding so loud that it overruled me. There was the relationship that lacked kindness and mutuality – the friendship laced in...
by Kerry Lusignan | Jun 12, 2020 | Parenting, Relationships
Here I sit, on the cusp of Father’s Day, feeling both with and without Father — while the earth has a fever and pirates run amuck. I remember my father crying. I’m not sure when or at what age, though I could venture a guess — I was (perhaps) six. It was over our...
