15 Years, 4500 Couples

15 Years, 4500 Couples

I like to think of the Northampton Center for Couples Therapy in the same way I view any relationship. For it to thrive, it must be based on mutuality, goodwill, shared values, and solid communication skills. At the heart of NCCT are our couples therapists and...
Resentment killed the cat…curiosity saved it

Resentment killed the cat…curiosity saved it

I frequently have clients who can’t seem to avoid resentment toward their partner when faced with an important “either-or” life decision. They report feeling compelled to go along with a decision their partner made for fear of losing the relationship, or because it...
Being Grateful for the Tough Stuff

Being Grateful for the Tough Stuff

Communication fumbles can offer more than one lesson on gratitude As we round the last corner of the calendar year and enter the holiday season, many of us will find ourselves engaged in traditions emphasizing the value and practice of gratitude. Countless...
Stay or Leave

Stay or Leave

Should I stay, or should I go now? If I go, there will be trouble. And if I stay, it will be double. The Clash lead vocalist Mick Jones sings these words in the iconic 1981 punk rock song, “Should I Stay or Should I Go.” It’s the epitome of...
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