Should I Give My Partner Another Chance?

Should I Give My Partner Another Chance?

The Fine Line Between Hope and Holding On How many chances are too many chances? When you repeatedly tell your partner what matters most to you, what you need, and what your deal-breakers are, yet you keep getting more of the same or even the opposite of what...
15 Years, 4500 Couples

15 Years, 4500 Couples

I like to think of the Northampton Center for Couples Therapy in the same way I view any relationship. For it to thrive, it must be based on mutuality, goodwill, shared values, and solid communication skills. At the heart of NCCT are our couples therapists and...
Overcoming Resentment and the Museum of Hurt

Overcoming Resentment and the Museum of Hurt

Sophia and Anthony say they love each other, and with two children have a lot at stake. But they have come to couples therapy because they are not happy. They both agree: there’s no joy. Anthony says he can’t remember the last time they had sex, or, for that...
Resentment killed the cat…curiosity saved it

Resentment killed the cat…curiosity saved it

I frequently have clients who can’t seem to avoid resentment toward their partner when faced with an important “either-or” life decision. They report feeling compelled to go along with a decision their partner made for fear of losing the relationship, or because it...
Being Grateful for the Tough Stuff

Being Grateful for the Tough Stuff

Communication fumbles can offer more than one lesson on gratitude As we round the last corner of the calendar year and enter the holiday season, many of us will find ourselves engaged in traditions emphasizing the value and practice of gratitude. Countless...
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