Being Alone in Your Marriage Is Not The Same as Being Alone

by Kerry Lusignan | Aug 31, 2021 | Marriage

I’ve heard it repeatedly — friends, clients, and family members telling me that their marriage was lonely and sexless. That they were alone for so many years while partnered that they don’t need (nor want) to devote a window of time post-breakup or divorce to flying...

The Top Five Relationship Books For Couples In Crisis

by Kerry Lusignan | Jul 8, 2021 | Crisis, Educational

Let’s face it, our media and culture are awash in self-help, be-happy, romanticized relationship advice; knowing where to go to get support and research-backed tools can be daunting. So this week (as promised), I sat down and compiled a list of my favorite top...

What to Do While You Wait for a Couples Therapist

by Kerry Lusignan | Jul 1, 2021 | Couples Therapy

Getting in with the right couples therapist can make or break whether your relationship thrives or withers. Given that, finding a couples therapist who checks all the boxes is non-negotiable. So, as you search for a couples therapist, I encourage you to ask important...

ICYMI: Marriage Trouble Insights from Kerry Lusignan Published Across the Web

by Kerry Lusignan | Jun 21, 2021 | Educational

Dear NCCT Community, In case you missed it, NCCT Founder, Kerry Lusignan, was recently featured in The Guardian, Glamour Magazine, The Insider, and the PACT Blog (Stan Tatkin). Here’s what Kerry has to say about everything from the challenges COVID poses on...

This is What Trauma Does

by Kerry Lusignan | Oct 14, 2020 | Trauma

We give up whole parts of ourselves to belong in our families. In turn, for those of us who dare to come home to ourselves, we risk losing our family and severing the ties that bind us. When I was twenty-one, I became the first member of my family to earn a...